Parenting isn't getting any easier. It's shocking the amount of X-rated advertising that constantly bombards our homes by way of family television and the Internet. Early exposure to adult materials, etc., can lead to promiscuity and even sex addiction among our children without some safeguards. This is a parental responsibility.

Protecting and educating our children about the dangers of unsafe products around the house and garage like aerosol containers, gas cans and other items that can be inhaled to get high is another ongoing responsibility of parenting. Boundaries protect those we love.

Statistics show that one of every six sophomores smokes marijuana and one of every four seniors smokes marijuana. It is the No. 1 drug used by teenagers. Kids begin using for acceptance, problems at home or school and peer pressure. They may become irritable, restless and anxious, while their grades suffer and they drop out of sports. If you think you have a child using marijuana or some other drug, find out. It's all about responsibility.

Kids will be less likely to drink if they have healthy things to fill their lives. A safe environment and a strong support structure will help them through the turbulent years of testing their wings until they can actually fly on their own. A parent has to be there for them when they fall. Labeling, judging and pushing them away won't help if you let them crash and be destroyed.

Believe in your kid until he can believe in himself.

LOYD BAKEWELL

Twin Falls